Embrace those Magic Moments

It has been told many a time that “each moment has a magic in it.” You only need to have the “eyes.” It is not a superficial statement at all. 

It’s a reality.

Most of the time we are stuck in our bitter past that we miss the magic. The heavy load of past pull us back from growth. The sad part is bad memories overpower the pleasant things that had happened in our life. 

Life is all about this, very, moment. Neither the days that passed nor the days to come. Past and future, both are myths. That’s why it is said that “present is the present.”

How many of us would like to eat days old food?

None. 

We love eating fresh, warm, food. When such is the case with physical, tangible, thing why we cling on to a mythical past. Why do we keep on chewing the waste of past? And what pleasure that gives you. Just break you internally. Stop you from progressing.

The burden of past will be the biggest, and only, impediment in your moving forward. 

I agree that some of the incidents from the past may have affected you negatively. It may have changed the course of your life. You may not have become as you hoped. But, believe me, it has not destroyed you.

Nothing can destroy you unless you allow it to.

Once you permit the negativity to seep into your heart, it will occupy most of the space and force the creativity out. It will start controlling your thoughts. And ultimately you will be scared to attempt anything new.

You will not be successful even if you amass all your courage and go ahead with your passion.

But, why?

Since the fear has entered your subconscious mind, it has the control on everything you do. Everything you think. Unfortunately, your conscious mind is not strong enough to recognise it. 

Then, there is a solution to every problem.

I consider that solution came before problem. Hence, there is a solution to every problem. You only have to calm down, take a long breath and look around. Think.

You have to start with a conscious effort. ‘It’s just past. It cannot destroy me,” you must repeat it to yourself every time the bad memories enter your mind.  Initially it may be tough. The bad memories would be stronger than your optimism.

That will be the case for a few days. Only. 

Then, slowly, and surely, you will be strong enough to walk forward. To a successful destiny. In no time, the magic would become a reality. You will grow to the level that nothing can stop you from winning. Key is in capturing the magic moments and holding those close to your heart. 

Capture. Create. Conquer.